Wednesday, October 31, 2012

The One With The Long Journey Back to Kafule (10/30/2012)


Sunday morning at about 8:00 Dahlia and I left the hotel and took a city bus to the central bus station where we met Kita.  He helped us find the right bus to take to get to Mpemba, a town about 100km outside of Mbeya.  That is where the truck that goes to Lupembe (about a 30 minute walk from our house) leaves from.  While on the bus we met a man named Kibona who is a teacher at Ileje Day, which is where Sarah, another World Teach teacher is working.  When we arrived in Mpemba Kibona helped us call our truck driver to find out what time he was planning on leaving.  The driver had originally told us 11 but he told Kibona that he was running late and would be at Mpemba around 1.  So Dahlia and I found a place to sit and get a soda; it was 11:00.  Two and a half hours went by and there was still no sign of the truck so we were starting to get a little nervous.  Dahlia tried to call our driver and I got talking to some men who were witting at the soda shop.  It turned out that they are pastors from Mpemba.  Just then I got a text from a friend who told us that the truck that we were waiting for was broken down in Tunduma (an hour away from Mpemba) and would not make it to Mpemba until about 6pm.  Dahlia and I quickly formulated a new plan.  We would take a bus to Isongole, where Sarah and David live, which is about half way from Mpemba to Kafule, and then spend the night there.  The pastors helped us find the right bus (a very crowded bus… keep that in mind) and we got on.  A few minutes later we got a call from Kita who said that he just heard about our truck but that he knows another driver (going to a town about an hour away from Kafule on foot) who agreed to wait for us in Isongole!  That’s right, a bus of about 50 people was waiting for the two of us, just because Kita asked him to!

On the way to Isongole our bus broke down… three times.  Each time we got it started again, Little Miss Sunshine style, with people pushing from behind and jumping in one by one when the bus started.  Despite the fact that I kept thinking that we had reached the busses maximum capacity we kept stopping to let on more people.  Eventually we reached the pointing where we actually could not fit anyone else (already the people seated by the windows had to lean out) but we took on one more person.  The conductor (the man who collects the money), unable to fit back on the bus, waited for the bus to start and then began running next to the bus.  He leaped onto the side while we were going and climbed up to the roof where he rode for the next few stops until someone finally got out.

We reached Isongole and found not only that the bus Kita had called was there waiting for us but that Asha, Stela, and Grace, three of the teachers from our school, were on the bus and had saved us seats.  On the way to Ndembo we had to get up some pretty steep hills.  The bus could not make it with all of the people on so each time we got out and walked.  At about 8:00 pm we made it to Ndembo where we planned to hire motorcycles to take us home.  But when we got off the bus we saw the hospital car from Isoko and the driver offered to take us home for free! Four busses, a car, and a little over 12 hours later, Dahlia and I reached our house, tired and hungry, but amazed at God’s protection throughout the day.  Between meeting Kibona on the first bus, the meeting the pastors in Mpemba, having the bus wait in Isongole, the teachers being there and saving us seats, getting to stretch our legs when we walked up the hills, and the hospital car being in Ndembo it would be near impossible to doubt that there is Someone watching over me.  I continue to feel blessed in so many ways!

Saturday, October 27, 2012

The One With Roda (10/27/2012)


Today Dahlia and I went back to Kita’s house after wandering around the city and doing a little shopping.  Most of our conversations with Kita end up in some kind of discussion about cultural customs, school practices, marriage traditions, views of women; it is always fascinating to talk with Kita!  But today we had a particularly interesting (and heartbreaking) conversation.  Kita rents part of a house that is owned by a widow who has only her granddaughter, Roda, living with her.  Apparently her daughter had an affair with a married man and became pregnant.  Shortly after having the baby she passed away and so the baby, Roda, went to live with her grandmother (Kits’a landlord).  In Tanzania children are property of their fathers family and so when a child is born out of wedlock it is the mothers responsibility to raise them until they finish primary school (age 13 or 14).  Then the father comes ad takes the child to live with his wife and family (giving the mother some money for raising the child).  Apparently last night Roda’s father and his wife came to Kita’s landlord and said that they are going to take her.  It is illegal for the grandmother to say no, Roda is property of her father, and so she is spending the day packing her things.  I cannot even imagine what Roda is going through so I ask for your prayers for both her and her grandmother.  
*Roda is not her real name

The One With Kita’s Family (10/27/2012)


Yesterday when Dahlia and I got to Mbeya we were met again at the bus stop by Kita. He took us to the grocery store and to get some lunch and after that we went to his house to meet his wife and two sons.  He has 2 boys, Elvis who is 10 years old and Goodman who is 3.  It was so wonderful to meet his family! His wife is so sweet! She is actually just beginning university this week! I am so excited for her! She is beginning a three year program to get her degree in human resources.  It is pretty rare that women go to college here but it is virtually unheard of for a mother to go to school.  I think this is going to be such an amazing opportunity for her!
There was a big box full of New Testaments in Kita’s house.  When I asked him about it he said that he bought one for each of his form two students when they finish their exams.  I am continually impressed with Kita.

The One With The Wedding Video

The singing and Dancing at the wedding!

The One With All The Pictures

The bride and groom with Mr. Mbughi 
Elizabeth and I outside my house

Neema, the school secretary and I at the wedding

The walk back from the wedding

Dahlia, my roommate, and I 

Also on the walk back from the wedding

Elizabeth and I cooking bagea

The bride and Groom at the wedding reception 

Friday, October 26, 2012

The One With The Three Day Weekend (10/25/2012)


Tomorrow is Eid-El-Hajji which is an Islamic holiday (from what I can gather it is only celebrated in Tanzania).  It seems to be a two day conference in Dar where Muslims are encouraged to help orphans and the elderly and to live in peace with other Tanzanians.  But it means that Kafule doesn’t have school tomorrow.  Not surprisingly, I didn’t find out until 9:00 last night.  So with a long weekend ahead of us, Dahlia and I decided to go to Mbeya.  While the truck ride to and from Mbeya is less than exciting I can’t wait for another weekend in the big city!

The One With The Game Of Mini-Golf (10/25/2012)


Grace and I were sitting in the staff room today and of course we were goofing off.  Grace was swinging around one of the sticks used to discipline the students as if it was a golf club.  So I suggested we play mini-golf.  We grabbed a rock to use as the hole and used empty chalk boxes as the balls.  (It turns out it is a lot harder than you might think to aim a chalk box with a stick, but that just made it more fun).  We were playing all around the staff room, while the other teachers laughed at us.  Out game ended early though when some students can in and caught is playing.  The staff room is anything but boring here in Kafule.